Tim Houlihan 0:07 Hey Kurt, how do you feel about constraints? Oh God, Kurt Nelson 0:10 I I hate them. I have a phobia, Tim. I mean, being constrained really freaks me out. I I literally get you know the heebie-jeebies whenever I think about being you know, handcuffed or unable to move, or it's just like, oh god, I just freak out, and it's just like being just can't move. It's oh my god, it's stop. Tim Houlihan 0:31 It's not not those kinds of constraints. Kurt Nelson 0:34 What? Oh, it's Tim Houlihan 0:35 not your secret S and M world. We're talking about we're talking about something different here. That it's the kind where you limit yourself to things. It's like using only 50 words to write a book, or requiring creatives to come up to you with three different pitches and not just Kurt Nelson 0:54 one. Oh, those constraints. Yeah, I yeah, I thought you were talking something else. Yeah. All right. So, like, always choosing the road less traveled when picking a path that you are constraining yourself to one action based upon a set of situations. Is that Tim Houlihan 1:11 yes? That type of constraint. All Kurt Nelson 1:14 right. So, well, then those types of constraints. I I sometimes really like them. Right. I mean, it's a bit counterintuitive, but I find them to be liberating. They're not constraining. I don't get heart palpitations from those. Me Tim Houlihan 1:31 too. I I think they're sometimes really good at getting me going or even getting me unstuck. And our guest today, David Epstein, has written a fantastic book about this phenomenon called Inside the Box: How Constraints Make Us Better. Kurt Nelson 1:46 Yeah, and it's a fascinating read. And even more importantly, I think we had a really great conversation. Tim Houlihan 1:53 Truly, listeners will leave with understanding how they can not only embrace the idea of using constraints, but also get the tips and tools that can use to actually apply some of these constraints wisely. Kurt Nelson 2:06 Yeah, we even go over some other cool tips in what is definitely a legendary grooveing session. Tim Houlihan 2:14 Legendary, yes, Kurt Nelson 2:16 legendary. At least in our own brains. Thank you. I guess I Tim Houlihan 2:21 maybe I just didn't have the right emphasis on Kurt Nelson 2:24 legendary, legendary grooveing session. Yeah, I didn't say it right the first time, right? Yeah. Tim Houlihan 2:30 Okay. Yeah. Well, that that would definitely be happening in our own brains. Kurt Nelson 2:34 Welcome to Behavioral Grooves, the podcast that explores what drives human behavior. I'm Kurt Nelson, Tim Houlihan 2:39 and I'm Tim Houlihan, and we use a behavioral science lens to look at how and why we do what we do. Kurt Nelson 2:46 Now we are excited to have a special sponsor for this week's Behavioral Grooves. Tim Houlihan 2:52 Yes, Behavior Shift is a behavior change company that uses behavioral science to build tools that help you achieve the change that will make your life better, whether it is identifying your core values to help you set better goals, developing routines and habits to achieve those goals, or building a gratitude practice to bring joy back into your life, behavior shift helps you do that. Kurt Nelson 3:18 From guided goal journals for busy professionals to daily planners to short modules to help you make better decisions or even set better goals. You can find the right tool for you, and you would know since it's your company. Well, yeah, I might be a bit biased, but yeah, it is a spinoff of the Lantern Group, and we were able to take all of the knowledge that we have been working and sharing with corporate 500 companies for almost 30 years now, and bring it to consumers. So check it out. Check out Behavior Shift on Amazon or at our Shopify account at www.behaviorshift.shop. That's behaviorshift.shop. So check it out. You can find a great tool that will help you lead a better, more productive life. Tim Houlihan 4:17 When you're thinking of behavior shift, just make sure you get that S H I F T in there. It's a behavior shift. Okay. Yeah. Kurt Nelson 4:25 Don't leave out the F. That don't don't leave out the F. Yeah. Don't leave out Tim Houlihan 4:28 the F. Okay. So after you go out and buy the tool that will help you live a better life, you can sit down with a strong pour of positive constraint and listen to our conversation with David Epstein. David Epstein, welcome to Behavioral Grooves. Speaker 1 4:48 Thank you for having me. It is Tim Houlihan 4:49 a pleasure to have you on the podcast, and we're going to start with our famous speed round. And so, first of all, would you prefer to learn a new instrument or a new language? Speaker 1 4:59 Language, Tim Houlihan 5:01 a new language, great. Oh, that was pretty quick. I gotta ask, in the in the world of like smartphones and and AI and automatic translation and things like that, will we need all that? Will we? Will you need a new language? Do you think? Speaker 1 5:16 Maybe not. But one of my goals in life is to be able to read Jorge Luis Borges in his native language, and that's a thing that's specifically important to me as a goal. Kurt Nelson 5:27 I love that goal. Wow! I think that's all right. We could go off on a whole timing there, but we're in the speed round, and this is supposed to be relatively speedy. This is very specific. I Speaker 1 5:38 wasn't thinking in the abstract about language versus. I love the goal that. Kurt Nelson 5:44 And the way you're thinking about it and the grammar and all anyway. So so there's writing is like his writing economy Speaker 1 6:02 is like black magic, and I just like read it, and I still admire like how does he get so much in such a small space, and I and I want to, I would like to really be able to intimately understand it in his in his native language. Yeah, because even the the Tim Houlihan 6:15 English translations are poetic. Speaker 1 6:18 Absolutely, yeah, yeah, yeah. Kurt Nelson 6:20 All right, second of our speed round questions, David: Are you a coffee drinker or a tea drinker or something else? Speaker 1 6:29 Neither. I keep making it my New Year's resolution every year to start drinking coffee, and it lasts till like january 3. I'm like, I'm a writer. I should be in coffee shops as a typewriter. No, it's like no, but it doesn't. Yeah, no. Tim Houlihan 6:45 What's wrong with you? Speaker 2 6:46 I don't know. What what happens Kurt Nelson 6:48 on january 4? That is it. Like I just don't care. Isn't yeah? I mean, it's kind of Speaker 1 6:53 like I know it's not going to work. It's sort of like a ritual of this being like a failed New Year's resolution now. That's kind of a fun thing. I think it. I think I don't really get much of a rise out of it, which maybe is why you know it doesn't really stick. Kurt Nelson 7:07 Tim Tim can't stand coffee, so I don't like the taste. Yeah, I Speaker 1 7:11 like. I really like how it smells. Yeah. Tim Houlihan 7:13 Oh, I'm with you. I'm with you. I once stayed in a in a hotel where where the they dried the the towels in coffee beans, and so the towels smelled like coffee beans. It was fantastic. I loved it, but I don't want to put that stuff to my lips. No, but Speaker 1 7:31 water, lots of water. Kurt Nelson 7:32 All right, good. Okay, okay. All right, third speed round question. Tim Houlihan 7:36 Fantastic. Third speed round question: True or false? Music, even highly improvised jazz, still shows signs of constraint. Speaker 1 7:48 Oh, absolutely, absolutely. I mean, it's a language. It's a grammar. It's a yeah. No, it's. I mean, those those constraints, those systems, are are what make the language work. Yeah, Tim Houlihan 7:59 perfectly said. We are going to come back to that and spend more time on that later on, Kurt. All Kurt Nelson 8:04 right, last of our speed round questions. This is fun. We should have more speed Speaker 1 8:08 round questions. We like speed round. Well, we have more. Kurt Nelson 8:11 We could we could just keep going on our. We have. Oh, we've got more speed round questions. One more speed round that we've never answered. It's like we put a whole list together, and then it's like at last minute, it's like, ooh, where do I want to go with this? Right, so there it is. You want to Tim Houlihan 8:23 do more speed run questions? Sure, all Kurt Nelson 8:25 right. So fourth and maybe not last speed round question: True or false? Dr. Seuss is the best known author to write an entire book with only 50 unique words. Speaker 1 8:36 True. True. I'm trying to maybe maybe maybe the only author. I don't know. I mean, 50 words is really few. Yeah, and yeah, he was this famous publisher named Bennett Cerf. Yeah, bet him that he wouldn't couldn't write a book using only 50 words, and that forced him. That constraint forced him to come experiment with rhythm, you know. Come up with this rollicking rhythm because he couldn't be expansive with his vocabulary. And by the way, when he when Dr. Seuss then started, I don't know if I'm violating the lightning round here. Keep going, keep going. When when he then co-founded an imprint called Beginner Books, and it was all built on constraints. So he would he would give vocabulary limits to the authors, other all sorts of other rules like the pictures have to be spread across two pages continuously, and nothing can be pictured that isn't described in the text, and you can only use these pure colors, you know, a certain number of colors. And for authors that complained or didn't like it. He said, "All right, well, you're, you know, then our imprint isn't right for you. And it became the most successful children's book imprint ever, and kind of really changed children's literature. Because prior to that, when I was reading children's literature for research, it was like pretty boring. You know, Johnny ties his shoe and walks to school. Like it was not. It was not. Really worked, Dick and Jane kind Kurt Nelson 10:02 of things, right? That it was, yeah, yeah. But the constraints, because of that, in again, as we're talking about, you know, your book, you know, inside the box, and it's all about constraints, right? So those constraints actually helped. How how how does that? And we'll get into this in depth. And I know Tim wants to ask a fifth speed round question, so I'm overlapping him here. But how how is it that constrains? I mean, if you think about general people, think about constraints. It's like I am inside this box. I can't be as creative. I can't be as productive. And yet, the book kind of your premise is that's not true. Is that did we get that right? Speaker 1 10:46 Yeah, and I think so. In in the abstract, people think that more freedom or fewer limits will unleash their creativity, but in reality, it's just not the case. And as the cognitive scientist Daniel Willingham has written, you may think your brain's made for thinking, but it's actually made for preventing you from having to think whenever possible. Because thinking is energetically costly, and so you want the the convenient solution, right? It's like it's like cookies on your browser. It wants to go where it's already been before, or do something easy or familiar. And so, in fact, it makes it incredibly hard to do something creative when you have a you know a cognitive system that wants convenience as and doesn't so much care if you come up with your your best creative idea. And so, the best way to make someone more creative is to block the first tool that they would reach for, essentially, so they don't go down that path of least resistance, and I kind of did this. Maybe I should wait for this, but I wielded some of this in my own writing of the book. I don't know if I should. Well, yeah, no. Kurt Nelson 11:49 I mean, you you you applied this to yourself. I mean, you you say you you you designed the box that you had to write in prior to actually writing the book. Oh yeah, yeah. Oh, that that's a Speaker 1 11:59 whole that's a whole other one, and so oh, but but yes, we can get into all of that, but specifically with like blocking the path of least resistance. So I write about Pixar some in the book, and I adapted a rule of theirs that they call the three pitches rule, where they would have directors pitch three story ideas instead of one because they found if they only pitch one, they fall in love with it, and it's usually not their best idea, right? The so-called creative cliff illusion. You think your best idea is first, but usually it comes later. And so, I would write the opening of every chapter because you just have to get started, right? So I'd write with something that came to mind, then I'd cross that opening out and force myself to come up with two other places, not just different wording, two other places or scenes or whatever it was where this chapter might start, and nine of the 12 chapters ended up starting with the second or third try. Once I had blocked my first instinct, and because my first instinct is my first instinct, I don't know why the first thing pops into head. Maybe it's just it was just the last thing I saw, or something. I don't know why, but so it was hard because once you have something down, you kind of want to think that it's right. But I think it was really fruitful, so I was trying to block my own path of least resistance. It is. I love that. Kurt Nelson 13:17 I love that. Tim Houlihan 13:19 Kurt and I come from a behavioral science background, and 20 years ago, a researcher named Shinai Engar did this fantastic study on how people buy jam and and what would get people to buy you know more jam in the supermarket. And in in one condition, they handed you know they they gave people 20 options, put them out on a table in a beautiful display, and you get a coupon. And in the other condition, they only got three options. And people were willing to; they made more purchase decisions when there were only three options. And and we saw that 20 years ago as like, oh, it's a constraint in decision making. But your thesis is really about it's just better overall. Like we get so much more, as Kurt was alluding to earlier, creativity, productivity, things like that. Benefit we benefit from constraints in all sorts of ways. Speaker 1 14:13 Yeah, let me let me say regarding the Jam study because I think it's like the most famous study of decision making. That study. The reason I don't cite it in the book is that the replication has been a bit shaky. It has, Tim Houlihan 14:27 yeah, from time to time. Yes. Speaker 1 14:29 That said, I think the core thing that it's getting has shown up in a bunch of other places, right? Especially having to do with when choice sets increase complexity. So you see things like Ingar has also looked at people with you know if there's too many 401k options at a company after a certain number of choices they just don't even participate even if that means forgoing the company match and with healthcare decisions if there are too many they either make worse decisions or they just don't make a decision at all so. So that's really counterintuitive, right? You think, according to the way that humans are modeled in neoclassical economics, more choices should always lead us to better choices. Tim Houlihan 15:08 Always, Speaker 1 15:09 but turns out humans are not utility-maximizing automatons after all. And so, I think it's and not not only does it lead us to either paralysis or worse decisions? But there's also evidence that people are, you know, from like Barry Schwartz and others that that people are just less happy with the decision when whatever it is, right? Because there's this endless ability to compare to what you what you might have done. I actually just wrote. I'm really delaying the speed round here, and and I don't know if I've killed it because it was you have really blow us apart here. Yeah, Kurt Nelson 15:48 well, just a whole whole thing here on speed round. That's fine. We're going. Well, Speaker 1 15:54 I just wrote a a newsletter post because it's around graduation time now about Robert Frost's poem "The Road Not Taken, because every time around this year I hear it cited a bunch of times, and the typical way it's cited is an ode to rugged individualism. Right? It's like you took the road less traveled, and I said the road not taken, the road less traveled, the road less traveled, and that that's made all the difference, right? And so the idea is you chose to zig when other people zagged, and that's what led to your success. And I think that's a totally valid message, especially for young people at graduation. On the other hand, it's absolutely not what Frost was intending. So, if you read the poem carefully, he says both roads were just as fair. He said neither has any difference in how much has been trod this morning, and he was actually sort of having a little fun with his walking partner, this guy Edward Thomas, who, when they would come to different paths, when they would walk, and the paths would look the same, and he could not decide, and so he would dither over which one to take. And then when they were done with the walk, Edward would always say, "Ah, we should have taken the other one. And so really, Frost was kind of criticizing his decision making, where he would agonize over these decisions that really didn't make much difference. And there's this idea called Fredkin's paradox, where Kurt Nelson 17:12 yeah, Speaker 1 17:12 we're liable to spend the most time on the least important decisions because we're having trouble telling the options apart because they're so Kurt Nelson 17:18 close. And yeah, yeah, Speaker 1 17:19 yeah. And so it's not that I think the normal interpretation of Frost poem is is wrong, but I just think it's it's kind of fun that he was recognizing actually the problem of comparing when you can compare all of your decisions to what else might have happened, and and we see this show up in all sorts of weird ways now. Like since the introduction of infinite scrolling, people have been getting progressively more bored, and it doesn't make any sense, you know, intuitively. And researchers who tried to figure out why would do things like assign people to either a set of 20 videos that they could choose from, or just give them one from that same set of 20 that they had to watch. And people who have the 20 are more bored than those who have to focus on the one. The theory being that because they're constantly comparing to like what they could have chosen instead, and so that the that that feeling of comparison, like like Frost's walking mate was doing with trails, spoils the experience of the thing you actually choose. Kurt Nelson 18:22 It's it's fascinating that that Frost poem is about a decision tool. I mean that that's kind of what it is. It's all right. If we're we're stuck here, just take the one that's less traveled. Don't have to then worry about it. It's not necessarily like saying that one's better or not. It's just a way of saying make that choice and let's just get on with it. Yeah, Speaker 1 18:44 yeah, yeah. I was saying, I don't know who said it, but I think I think it might be Ellen Langer, but it's something along the lines of don't make the right decision, make the decision and then make it right. You know, and I think there's some some wisdom to that. Tim Houlihan 18:57 Well, and and Herb Simon's satisficing idea, Speaker 1 19:00 absolutely. Tim Houlihan 19:00 Like just just keep moving. It's it's really life is going to be okay, and yeah, and your well being will be better for it without the agonizing. Speaker 1 19:10 Yeah, Simon. I mean, he's been like behind every third rock I've turned over into science for like a decade, and that idea of satisficing, because I think I have maximizing tendencies in many cases, and so you know, or maybe we'd call optimizing now, and so that satisfying the idea of kind of having good enough decision rules was really impactful for me. So, for example, my newsletter. This isn't going to make anybody want to read it, but if a if a book has to be kind of a nine or a 10, you know, in my effort level or or if or or my attempt at quality, if I get a newsletter post a six and a half, that's my standard. Say send. Six and a half. I Kurt Nelson 20:01 like. I like the half is in there. Yeah, yeah, yeah. Six Speaker 1 20:04 felt too low, but and but seven could easily become eight, and then it's trouble. So, so it's kind of a satisfying exercise for me. Where at these regular intervals, I'm sending something out every time I send it out. I'm sending it out thinking, oh, here's this other idea I'd like to connect it to, or this other thing I'd like to get in. But just now I've gotten used to. I'm just like, this is a six and a half. Send it out, and it's kind of important for me, and I think people like me to have some of these areas where we set good enough criteria ahead of time, so that you don't have to you don't have to agonize over everything. Tim Houlihan 20:42 So it the example that you just gave indicates that there's different levels of constraint or or actually desire to sort of achieve and perform in different domains. Speaker 1 20:55 Yeah. Tim Houlihan 20:56 Right. And so, are there specific areas where you think having constraints is really a good idea, and that there might be other domains where having constraints might not be a good idea. Speaker 1 21:06 Yeah, I mean, I think there's some level of constraint is going to, and structure is going to be useful just about anywhere. But I think there's a lot of devil in the details. So where I said, like with a book, I'm trying to get to a nine or a 10, so I'm not doing that good enough criteria, but there are other constraints on me, like my publisher's deadline, and you know I cut this from the book, but I was reading about Hayao Miyazaki because I love his films, you know, Spirited Away and Princess Mononoke and everything. And his lifelong business partner referred him as the never-ending man because he said if if we weren't hammering on him, this is when this thing is going to be in theaters. Like this is when the previews are going to happen. He'd continue obsessing over you know some details in the background of a shot, and I kind of feel that way too. So the deadline is very important, you know, knowing some of the sort of boundaries of the genre. So I know that in books like mine, at least maybe although I'm not really sure they're going to be printed in multiples of 16 pieces of paper, and so that's like a something that you have to fit into, and that includes you know citations and front matter and all that sort of thing. So there are other boundaries that I'm aware of, whereas my newsletter, it's it's all made up by me, right? No deadline, no word limit, anything like that. So that's where I have to sort of more forcibly put some of those constraints in place. Kurt Nelson 22:31 And so you could put yourself in in more constraints. You could say I'm going to do this, you know, every day or weekly or some kind of number component. You could say it has a certain. It can be. It has to be so many words, but can't be longer than this many words. And and again, you know, is that do we need to do this for all of these aspects in our life, or should we be trying to figure out which are the ones? Again, choosing between these two paths. Do I do I care right? And so, do I need to be putting constraints on everything, or should I be really focusing in on those really important aspects? Speaker 1 23:10 I mean, I think there are. So let's say, what what would what's an area that comes to mind for you where you think it would be an argument for like maybe we don't want any constraints? Kurt Nelson 23:20 Oh, that's a because. Oh, go ahead. Yeah, Speaker 1 23:27 because I was just gonna say because because I would argue like there are some areas where I think we want fewer constraints. We don't want them to be premature, but you know, let's say let's look at dating or something like that. Like a a choice of a partner is obviously something that you know you might not be inclined to say. Well, six and a half, I'm going to go with it, right? But on the other hand, I think there are some constraints that are there, and you're better off recognizing them, even though you didn't make them. For one, is your mortality okay? Like you don't want the search to go on forever because there is a very hard deadline that I think we're not that great at thinking about. Like the Stoic philosophers talk about memento mori. You know, it's like every morning remember your mortality because that will help you figure out what to focus on. And and one thing that I think useful constraints do is force you to clarify priorities, and that's what I think that does. And and there's there's something like this, and all you know, it's called Muranasati in Buddhism. It's like this, this remembering your limited time, and I think that can you didn't make that constraint, but that can force some recognition of of how you should make these decisions. And there's a famous so stay on stay on dating. There's sort of two other two other points to make because I think that's an area that would naturally come to mind for a lot of people of like I don't want any artificial constraints. In John Allen Paulos, the mathematician, in his book *In Numeracy* goes through this famous proof of how to select, like get the best chance of having a high quality match mate, and basically, you know, it's this probability proof. But basically, what he shows is that. You should estimate the number of people that you'll ever get to date, and then once you've dated basically about a third of those people, you should pick the next person who outranks all the previous people and stop. And so the the path because if you don't do that, if you keep going, you're more likely to either end up with a bad fit or with nobody at all, and so the path to the the likely best outcome, right? These are probability, goes directly through the willingness to stop searching long before you possibly could. Kurt Nelson 25:33 Yeah, Speaker 1 25:34 and I think that's counterintuitive, but I think it's it's kind of profound, especially in a world where you swipe, swipe, swipe, swipe, swipe, right, and and I think we're starting to see evidence that this does not make people happy. And the psychologist Scott Stanley, you know, has coined this phrase "sliding versus deciding" to talk about people in relationships where sliding means they will get in a relationship, but basically in the interest of keeping their options open, or at least feeling that way, they'll say like, "I'm not, you know, I'm not totally sure yet, right? But but escalating commitment happens anyway, so you sort of sleepwalk into it. That's sliding, and if those couples end up married, they're much more likely to get divorced, less likely to be happy, versus people who say, "I'm either in or I'm out, that's what it is, and so I view that as a type of constraint. Maybe it's a little more conceptual, but making a decision one way or the other. Because this whole thing of I've heard businesses talk about say things like I've actually been in meetings where they'll say, because I try to shadow people at businesses when I can, they'll say, "Oh, this decision is a two way door, and and usually people are should we do this or should we not? And say, well, it's a two way door, and and my perception is that it really prevents them from committing one way or the other, you know. And I think people sometimes are doing that with relationships where it's like you're not making the decision. So I wouldn't say that you should put a constraint on yourself, like I have to find a spouse this month, right? But I do think there should be things in mind like the amount of time you have, the realistic sample you're going to expose yourself to, and the idea that that you should be making a hard decision one way or the other, as opposed to just sort of sort of sleepwalking through this and expecting this completely open process to magically deliver the best results. Kurt Nelson 27:19 We talked with Logan Yuri, who is a behavioral scientist and a dating expert, and it's interesting because she brought up the similar things. But one thing that you talked about at the beginning is you don't want to necessarily satisfy for that. And actually, Logan said no, you should because we-if you have that propensity to be a maximizer, it's like, oh, I'm at-he's-he's a 92 out of 100, but I could maybe get a 93 or a 94 or 95, and you're going, holy crap! I'm I'm happy with a 65, right? To you know, I'm you know because you make it work, and those are different things. Yeah, that's right. Speaker 1 27:56 And you have to you right, you have to make it work. No matter no matter who it is, you're going to have to make it work, right? Exactly. Now look at like, am I 100? No. Do these people think that they are hundreds? Right. So there's going to be things that you don't like, just like there are things you don't like about yourself. And so I think that recognition that like this is something you're gonna have to work on is is important and especially it's like tough to be on the internet now you know and in some ways I'm I'm glad I'm not a young person it's like even even knowing but like I know so much of this stuff is curated and so much of it's fake but it still kind of affects you of like oh yeah all the how you should be living and how you should be looking and all this kind of stuff and so I just worry about what that does to our to our psyche if like everybody has these unreal I just don't think you know obviously in human history we didn't we're probably not well constructed to. compare ourselves to the entire world all the time, as opposed to just the people on your block, which is enough, right? That was more than Kurt Nelson 29:10 enough. Yeah, yeah. Speaker 1 29:11 And so, I think there could be this really hideous conversion of, you know, this searching for the perfect, there actually are surveys showing that socially prescribed perfectionism is on the rise, and and the ability to endlessly compare. Which I'm like, that just seems like a real recipe for dissatisfaction. Tim Houlihan 29:33 Disaster. That that feels like that's a that's an erosion, really, of the human condition. That that feels pretty terrible. I wanted to move from dreaming about great partners or the dream boats or the you know what what we might consider to be you know the the the ideal in our relationships to a dream that Dmitri Mendeleev had about the periodic table. And because you open the book with that story, and it's a fantastic, it's a fantastic story. Can you set us up with just a little bit of background of Mendeleev wasn't the first to try to figure out a periodic table of sorts, but what what does he do, and why why did the constraints that he applied work so well. Speaker 1 30:22 Yeah, that was a that was a very interesting transition from Dreamboats to Menileo's dream. I mentioned that too. Trying, Tim Houlihan 30:29 I'm trying Speaker 3 30:30 your dude. Yeah, yeah, yeah. I think the Speaker 1 30:32 speed round is dead at this point, unfortunately. Yeah, it is. I'm sorry. You're now into our Kurt Nelson 30:37 questions. Here you go. Speaker 1 30:38 Yeah. So, well, let me tell you the story that I learned when I was in college chemistry, just quickly to start, which is that that Mendeleev in the winter of 1869 was trying to order all the elements, the chemical building blocks of the universe, and it was for three days with basically no sleep. He worked at this and wasn't able to do it, and then he fell asleep and drifted off into the most important nap in human history, where he saw the elements kind of swirling around, and they they snapped together in a grid. And if you move across the grid, the chemical and physical properties of those elements repeat periodically. Hence the name. And this isn't just a poster that hangs in classrooms. By the way, it's like it pointed the way to new materials, to new elements where they should be. Still motivated this. Still, it motivated the search for the underlying cause of this order, which was atoms, etc. And this dream story is what I learned again in college chemistry. You know, scientific societies celebrated. The mattress company Casper used it in marketing. Matthew Walker, in his bestseller *Why We Sleep* calls it the you know the the ultimate proof of the power of our dreaming brain, like loosed from the bounds of reality. And I was surprised to learn that it's utterly false. It didn't happen. In fact, there's a whole history of dubious dream stories in chemistry, specifically, but that's a that's wow yeah yeah talk about a Tim Houlihan 32:05 sub genre wow Speaker 1 32:07 yeah yeah and I can explain that in a sec, but I'll tell the real Mendeleev story first. What actually happened was that he had a publishing contract for a two volume intro to chemistry textbook, and he had only gotten eight of the then 63 known elements into Volume One, so he had to get the other 55 into Volume Two, and he had to do it in a way that would be make some sense to beginners. So he had a customer issue, and he had a serious space constraint, space and time, really. And so that's what led him to start experimenting with, hey, can I find families of elements that I could describe as a group, so that I don't have to go one at a time. And once he started looking at elements as families, he started noticing all these similarities, and not just and sort of repetitive similarities. That that there were like all these analogies between different elements. And it was in doing that that he he landed on the periodic pattern. So he was absolutely not looking for a law of nature, he was looking for an organizational scheme for his textbook. But that that did one of the I mentioned that useful constraints can force us to clarify priorities. I think another, arguably the other main thing that it can do, is launch us into exploration and experimentation that we never would have undertaken otherwise until forced, and and that's what happened with Mendeleev, and I think that gap between the myth and the reality is symbolic of something important that we overvalue complete freedom and undervalue the power of useful constraints to to to propel our best thinking. Kurt Nelson 33:35 Yeah, I was going to ask, like, why is it that people prefer the dream story because it it does it is kind of pervasive where the reality of it is not and I you know is that the reason is that we just prefer that idea that hey there's this opportunity to just anybody if we're working on something can just pop in and there's no work behind it or what what is that Speaker 1 34:00 I think that's part of it I mean, I think it's just awesome. It's just a cool story, right? Like lightning strikes of inspiration are cool stories. They they weren't they weren't creativity wasn't really seen that way until kind of the late 18th century romantic period when there was this sort of rebellion against the Enlightenment, basically, and and that's when you started seeing these stories of people who are just like struck by inspirational lightning, or like from the gods, or in a dream, and all this stuff. And so, some I think it was a little bit of a rebellion against things getting too logical. Okay, but also I I do think it just Feels like, like what we how we like to think of genius that these these ineffable processes, right? Like, what could be more boring than organizing a textbook? And Tim Houlihan 34:54 nothing, actually. No, I think the answer is zero. Like Speaker 1 34:58 there are films and things where they dramatize. Mendeleev's dream, like dramatizing organizing elements for a textbook, it's not. It's not sex. Kurt Nelson 35:09 Nobody's gonna watch that movie, right? Yeah, yeah. So I think I Speaker 1 35:12 think it just sort of comports with some of our mythology about how genius works, even though that's not really how genius works! Hey, this is Kurt Nelson 35:25 Kurt, and we want to say thanks for listening to Behavioral Grooves, and we hope that you're enjoying this episode. But it feels a little bit one-sided. You're hearing from us, but we're not hearing from you. 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And in fact, many of the innovations that we often go and associate with, like this lone genius, they were, they might have won the race, but by minutes or days or different things, or maybe not at all. And there's multitudes of these that are happening around the world at different places at different times. And you talk about that setting up of the the conditions for this, and there's a there's that component. And and I actually love this part where you you bring up the idea of a setter, like a volleyball setter who positions the ball perfectly for a spike. So, can you can you talk a little bit about that framework of framing for innovation, but then the setter component that you you you talk about? Yeah, Speaker 1 37:12 and I'll be a little whining here because I think this is a one of the maybe the toughest concept in in the book in many ways, which I've noticed. I always smuggle that into the penultimate chapter of my book, and in with Mendeleev, so he he did make this genius breakthrough, became known as the father of periodic table, but in fact, there were so there were no periodic tables before 1860, and then there were six in the next nine years, so we went 20 straight centuries with, you know, earth, wind, water, fire as the elements, and then like in the 18th century, that started changing, and and then all of a sudden you get these periodic tables, and what preceded all of those was a meeting in which an Italian chemist said, "Hey, look, all of you are measuring weights of elements differently, and and other other sort of properties of elements differently. And he made a pamphlet and said, "Now here's how we're all going to do it from now on, or we should. And he handed the pamphlet out, and suddenly everybody started using a standardized system, and that meant that work could communicate across space. And as soon as that happened, it like created a sort of invisible collaboration, and and people started finding the pattern. So Mendeleev, he he sort of won what's known as a priority dispute in science history, partly because he had the most complete system, and he made these bold predictions about where other elements would be, and also because he really wanted to be known as the founder of the periodic table. So, like the one other guy who had basically the same system as him was also at that same meeting where they handed out the standards and was also writing a textbook. So he had the exact same constraints and came up with the exact same table to his historical misfortune. His publisher misplaced Kurt Nelson 39:05 it. Oh my god! Speaker 1 39:06 And so it was only found later. But that I was using that as emblematic of innovation history, where basically every groundbreaking innovation, there actually there's usually one person in the history books, that's credited, but there are well-known other people who were converging at the same time. I mean, sometimes it's exactly the same time. the The transistor, you know, which which enabled our digital age. It's like two one team in Europe, one team in the U.S. Same time. The telephone, Elisha Gray and and Alexander Graham Bell filed in the patent office on the same day, and there were like seven other people that were right right there at the same time. Flight, flight, flight, whatever it is. I mean, jet engines, like you know, all sorts of rules that we use in math and things like that. It's and and what usually precedes so so and the classic example is evolution by natural selection, where Darwin Alfred Russel Wallace, when Darwin's Darwin had not published his findings yet, and Wallace sent him some of his manuscript, and Darwin wrote to his mentor and said, "I have never seen a greater coincidence than this. It's like he took the thoughts right out of my head, and what led to Darwin and Wallace doing that was obviously they had surveyed really broadly the natural world, but a few other things were going on. Is is there were these questions that were becoming prominent in their spheres? Like Darwin kept, he had about 230 pen pals that he would pepper with questions, and these same kind of questions from some of these people would start coming to him that were like, "Why are we finding fossils of animals that we don't actually see anywhere on Earth? Why are we finding marine fossils on the top of mountains? Why do the bones in a human arm and a bat's wing and a whale's flipper have so much in common? And these questions were well known at the time, and people were circling them, and they even knew there even breeders even knew that there were random variations that would be they didn't know about genes, so they didn't know how this worked, but that random variations they called sports would pop up and be passed down to progeny, and Darwin was thinking about this. Alfred Russel Wallace was thinking about this when they both happened to read this essay called "On Population" by Reverend Thomas Malthus, who was basically making the argument that humans would always have a population collapse because population growth would outstrip the food supply, and we would always sort of crash back. and And turned out that he was wrong about what would happen with humans going forward, but just setting up that question, Wallace and Darwin both immediately started saying, "How must this operate in nature? And that galvanized them both to come up with the idea of natural selection. And it's really, you know, there's there's probably never been. I think quantum revolution and and evolution by natural selection are the two sort of greatest breaks in scientific history with with prior thought, and yet they were really set up by these questions, like multiple people. These things that you think of, they're the most you know singular achievements, but multiple people come to them at the same time because these other people who are really helping define the question really well sort of focused their attention and their problem solving, and that's what there's an antecedent like that for basically every major breakthrough in science and technology. Right? It's like why all of a sudden when the first chatbot came out, it's like there were all these other AI companies about to jump on it because they were all following these these same trends, and so it just is a different picture of genius from these like singular people through history, when many of the most important figures have been someone who just incredibly well defines a problem that then focuses other people's thinking, like the and I'll I'll I'll stop after this one last example. Speaker 1 43:09 But David Hilbert, who I think is arguably the most impactful mathematician of the 20th century, is best known not for his own math, which was incredible, but because he decided to survey math and come up with two dozen questions that he thought were important and really rigorously define them, and then he passed them out in a pamphlet at a conference, and that set an agenda for 20th century math. And most of them were solved. It was just like defining these problems and giving them to people. They immediately start. It focuses their energy on what to do, so often stating the problem well is often the best way to to to propel a solution. We Kurt Nelson 43:47 need more pamphlets and in. I know this is that's the real message. It's just the messages like everybody got to come up with pamphlet. Yeah, Tim Houlihan 43:55 right. More pamphlets. Okay, check. Note to self constraints in defining the problem are really critical, and I want to get back to something that we teed up in the speed round way back when about Dr. Seuss. Tell us about the Green Eggs and Ham effect. Speaker 1 44:19 Can I go back one activity with Dr. Seuss because even before Green Eggs and Ham, what propelled that bet with Bennett Cerf, the publisher, who was a legendary publisher, by the way. Like when I get books from my publisher, the return address is Bennett Cerf Way or something. Wow, wow. And so yeah, he was a big deal. That first Dr. Seuss was asked if he could write a children's book using about 200 words from a vocabulary list, which is still very few. And he looked at the list and noticed there were very few adjectives, and started complaining. He made this this Seussian comment that I love. He said, "His wife, it's like trying to make a strudel without any strudels." Yeah, and and and eventually just sort of threw up his hands and said, "All right, I'm just going to take the first. Well, he wanted to write a book about a queen zebra, but he neither one of those words were on the list. So he threw up his hands and said, "I'm just going to take the first two rhyming words and write a book. And the first two rhyming words were "cat" And hat, Kurt Nelson 45:21 yeah, Speaker 1 45:21 right. And so there he had his had his book. And again, this is this is where this rollicking rhythm really started, where he said, "Okay, I can't be expansive with vocabulary. I have to have to experiment with something else. And then that led to the bet for Green Eggs and Ham. Could he do it with even fewer words? And the Green Eggs and Ham effect. This is a a term coined by psychologist Katrinell Trump to describe this repeated finding in research that basically people think they'll be worse off when you hem them in, but in fact they are almost always more creative. There's a level of constraint at which that reverses, but the level is when you're basically telling someone not only what to do but exactly how to do it, right? But when you restrict the easy means and still leave them room to surprise themselves, it's like the greatest creative prompt that that even people who identify as not very creative will suddenly become much more creative. Kurt Nelson 46:18 Fantastic. Prior to starting the recording, you said you were talking about UPS and their change management. You want to tell that story because I thought that was a fascinating part of of the book. So Speaker 1 46:33 yeah, so so UPS, as I learned, would not have inherently thought that they were an interesting company. Yeah, come on, brown brown just the trucks and shirts, yeah, yeah, yeah. But fascinating. I mean, they had to they had to map all of America because Google Maps wasn't accurate enough for them, and they were you know they have a big they have an analytics team, and their goal was to try to save some mileage, save some gas, save some emissions, save some time, and so they were grappling with what's called the traveling salesman problem, where it's basically the most efficient way to connect dots in different stops. And this seems like it should be simple, but actually the possible combinations are so numerous that it's like what mathematicians call combinatorial explosion, you know. So, and and it's gotten even worse for UPS. Whereas one of the people at UPS told me that they used to deliver you know 50 red sweaters to Macy's or something. Now they have like 120 stops, and they're all to individual houses. Yeah. So and there, there's more ways that you could connect 120 dots than there are seconds since the Big Bang. Um, and so they were trying to build an algorithm to improve on this. They realized they couldn't solve it perfectly, but they built this system called Orion that would try to improve on what on what drivers knew, and the first thing they realized was that drivers had some knowledge that Orion kind of didn't pick up on. Like drivers would know if you know school was going to get out at some certain time, and they're going to have to be careful of kids, or somebody had to sign for a package, wasn't home, but actually they know they work around the corner, or their relative does, or something like that. Right there was all this idiosyncratic knowledge that drivers had that was hard for Orion to pick up. And Orion also did weird things, like if if a if a human driver was driving past some side street that had a delivery, they would stop and deliver it. But Orion might say, "Drive right past it, and we'll come back to it later in the day. Or the funniest one was in a cul-de-sac, where if you're delivering packages in a cul-de-sac, you go around the cul-de-sac, right? And Orion would sometimes say to zigzag, which just feels like totally unnatural, and it might save three meters of walking or something like that, but it's weird. And so drivers were rejecting Orion, like they didn't want to use it. Like this is weird, this is stupid, and so the analytics team that had worked so hard on this was finding that there was no adoption of this project, and so as they told me, it's like the algorithm was the easy part, the change management was the hard part, and what they ended up having to do was first they started making these kiosks where people could see what Orion was doing, they could play with it like a video game. Well, what if it did? What if I did this? What if I did this? How would Orion reroute me? And so they tried to make it from sort of a blast black box into a glass box, so you could sort of query if you made some change, how would Orion reroute you? And they liked that first, but then they started setting it up as what they called beat the computer, where they said, "All right, you don't you don't have to follow Orion. See if you can beat it. And one of my favorite anecdotes was one of the a long time driver, you know, came back from a day having beaten Orion and said, "See, I told you your system sucks. And when they looked at his data, he had driven 135. Miles that day, and his average for years had been 150. So he did beat Orion, but it, but but trying to beat it, but he had to change so much better, and ultimately became a partner system where people would follow Orion, but they could deviate from it with their idiosyncratic knowledge. Speaker 1 50:15 And what I thought was so interesting about the story was that the first, the it wasn't the tech; it was the change management was at the was the issue, and they really had to meet people part way. That these visions of change are much more compelling when they also include a vision of continuity, where you're using some of that human expertise in instead of just extinguishing it and replacing it, saying, you know, we want that to continue, and and here's a tool that can make you even more effective. And I embedded that in this chapter about how the more radical an idea is or a change, if you want people to come along with it, you have to ground it in something that's that's really familiar to them. And and I think ultimately they did a good job of that at UPS. Kurt Nelson 50:59 I took a piece of that too is this the sense of autonomy or self determination, right? And so, as opposed to having Big Brother tell me, "You suck, we need to follow this. And we see this in in Tim and I both do consulting with organizations, and we see that kind of top down heavy component going into this, and that usually gets this reactance. It usually gets this kind of pushback from that component, and I think it's really important. And I'm I'm I'm seeing it a little bit with AI adoption within organizations. And I don't know if you if you've thought about that or if there's anything that you can think about again in that same way, it's a radical change in how people are operating. But you know, some recent research says that you know, 30 plus percent of people are of employees are actively sabotaging AI adoption processes. Like 42% of millennials are actually doing that. Though some KMPG I think, did some some research on that. So yeah, Speaker 1 52:04 well, yeah, few thoughts. And I know you know the the AI speakers who mention AI commencement addresses have been getting booed and stuff. I don't know if you've seen them. Yeah, so but I mean, Kurt Nelson 52:12 there's the pushback, right? Speaker 1 52:14 Yeah, yeah, yeah. A few things about that. One, so that that idea of, I mean, right, constraint is is is is practically synonymous with something that we find frustrating, right? Which I think can be unfortunate because it can be really useful. But I think people will often see a dictate whether it's a constraint or something else as a punishment at work because of a lack of of a sense of agency, and that's where I think you know leadership is really, really an important art. I mean, to give one example of an executive that I saw do something I thought was cool, he went to, you know, took took his his team and said they were under some pressure, and he said he did this exercise he called the legacy constraint, where he said, "Let's say we're going out of business in two years. They weren't going out of business in two years, but if they didn't turn things around, you know, maybe five or 10. So something had to change. And he said, "If we were going out of business in two years and only we knew it, what would we do differently? Like we, our clients, customers didn't know it, and people started saying, "Oh, you know, I'd stop focusing on X and I'd start focusing on Y because that's where the real value is. And he said, "All right, well, well, maybe maybe we should do that then. And I think that was a kind of brilliant way to let people. You know, everyone was aware that there were pressures to bring people into that process of if we have to make some changes, you know what what what would you do? And and so then I think they felt some agency in that. So it wasn't just this like dictate. Because I've been in a company when I was you know at Sports Illustrated and it was part of Time Warner and then Time Inc. We would read about changes that were coming in the newspaper, which was a terrible way. Wow! About even if the decisions were good, yeah, they're going to be bad when they're delivered that way, and people are going to rebel against them, right? And so I think that that model of it's not that the executive it doesn't get to make the decision, but but bringing people in that way so they're sort of part of it, and doing these thought exercises, you know, like one of the first readers of Inside the Box was this guy named Ed Hoffman, who was the first Chief Knowledge Officer at NASA, which is a position sort of for a psychologist that is supposed to make sure the organization learns from good and bad performances. So it was forced to be created after the second shuttle disaster, and he said, "Have to tell you about this mission called Lcross, where the engineers ended up with kind of half the time and budget that they were hoping for. And so, what do they do? Well, they complain at first, and then one of the team leaders says, "Well, you know, if we were going to get, if we were going to get this done anyway, how would we do it?" And that like sparked them, you know, sparked them in the way maybe that famous scene in Apollo 13 does, where they're like, "All right, how would we get this done if we had to? And and maybe that was a leader just knowing what motivated their team. But so they said, "Well, we wouldn't build from scratch because we don't have enough money or time. So they they borrowed, they ended up borrowing imaging equipment from army tanks and engine temperature sensors straight out of NASCAR, and built a probe that confirmed water on the moon, and so that became a thought exercise for them. After that, even if they didn't have to do it, it was if we had half the time and half the money, how would we do this? Just as a way to spark other possible solutions. So I think doing some of these things as thought experiments with the group, and then maybe you end up taking some of those suggestions. You know, whatever those things are. Speaker 1 55:46 Well, if it's a cultural thing, like another exercise I saw, you know, an organizational leader do was, if we could only select for, if we could only have more of one behavior, what would it be? And nobody's ever going to select for just one behavior, but that has this focusing effect for people of saying like, what what you know. So I I think sometimes for leadership doing these these constraint based thought experiments, and by the way, I have a list of some that I've seen done on my website davidepstein.com. There's like a tips thing that just stuck up there. Cool can really kind of bring people into the help generate ideas for the leader, and also give people a feeling of having been involved in the process. And when it comes to AI, that's an interesting one, right? Because people people feel threatened for good reason. Over the last year, I spent time with one company that helps other companies implement AI, and I don't know if this is exactly relevant to the question, but some of those companies, my I sort of broke them down in my mind into two buckets. One that was sprawling implementation, like we need this thing everywhere. We need we need it everywhere, and that would lead to what some researchers have now called work slop-just huge volumes of stuff because it's obviated the need to do the hard work of saying what's not worth doing, and the implementations that seem to me to be more successful would say what really spend time saying what is the problem we're trying to solve here, and does the tool fit that? Or one company created what they called a map of jobs to be done, and I think people found that way less intimidating because instead of it just being AI is going everywhere, it was okay. Here are the things that we do here. Here is this. Here is what this thing that we can offload for you, so you can focus on thinking about strategy, and and so I think if you can make something more concrete and say, "Here are the jobs that need to be done. Here are the ones we think AI can do, and here's how we think that works with what you do, I think it can be a little less scary just than like AI everywhere, you know? Yeah, because that that feels like a that kind of feels like the devil you don't know sort of thing. Yeah. Well, and I Kurt Nelson 58:00 love the constraint part that you just brought up. That when you talked about Worksop, because it's so easy to do all the stuff, we're just doing everything. When in fact, know what you need to be doing is is prioritizing and saying, here are as you said, here's that map of the things that we're going to be working on with this, as opposed to just allowing. I've I've I've heard many stories of somebody took a standard operating you know standard operating procedures for the U.S. for their learning department and and then put it into AI and said here's the global ones and it's absolutely wrong because it's a vastly different thing and AI didn't get all of those nuances nor different things and then that got elevated to executives, and they said, "Great, once it can be implemented. And then the team had to, you know, basically go and genuflect and say, "This is we're not anywhere near this. Yeah, so yeah, Speaker 1 58:53 it's a it's it's never been easier to do too much, Kurt Nelson 58:56 and I love and and and I think what you're you're you know, in, you know, inside the box, and what you're talking about here is saying there are ways that we can, if we can do this smarter, if we can put some constraints around some of these things. So, Tim Houlihan 59:12 also, this reminds me of the Sheila Tarmina story because of her ability to use constraints as a five foot two woman at the University of Georgia, getting into the Olympics in in Georgia, how does that and and and then the arc of her career was to a large degree about constraints. Speaker 1 59:38 Yeah, yeah, and she's an interesting case because you know we've talked some about constraints that you could put on yourself or on a tim that might might help. And this, you know, often we don't get to choose the constraints, and yet my argument is that they can still focus our our energy. And Sheila, so as you mentioned, she was a student and swimmer at the University of Georgia, tried to make. Olympic team, the 200 meter freestyle in 1992 didn't make it. wasn't really close, and retired. And then she, for one of her last classes, she took management 577, in which she learned about the so called theory of constraints, which is this idea that created by a physicist named Eli Gold, Ellie Goldratt, and that every system is limited by its single least efficient step, basically. And so, no matter how well all most of the parts of a system are working, it doesn't matter if if there's one bottleneck. Yeah, the weak Tim Houlihan 1:00:36 leak in the chain, basically. The bottle. Yeah, the bottleneck. Speaker 1 1:00:39 And so Sheila was interested in that, and decided for her class project to come up with a training plan to target her own training bottleneck and and try to drop three seconds of 200 meter freestyle. And so maybe she won't retire fast off. Tim Houlihan 1:00:52 That is a huge difference Speaker 1 1:00:53 at that level. Yeah. Yeah. Speaker 1 1:00:55 And she sort of surveyed her training and realized very quickly that her bottleneck was strength and power. I mean, like you said, she was five foot two, average elite female swimmer, about five foot 10, many taller, and so she had a great aerobic engine, world class. But that's what she was spending all her time working on doing tons and tons of yardage, but that was not the thing limiting her. So she was just working on her strength, even though she was limited by something else. You know, it's like a factory that's like puts fast machines in one area, but it doesn't matter because there's a slow one somewhere else that that slows down the whole process. And so she took this training plan unretired and went and found a coach who would implement it with her, which took her some time because most of the good coaches didn't think that she really actually had the potential to make the Olympics. They implement this plan focusing on her strength and power, her limiting factor. And four years later, she swims three seconds faster in the 200 meter freestyle, makes the Olympic team, and then wins an Olympic gold medal as part of the relay team. It's fun to Google image her because you'll see her with her relay team with a gold medal, and it looks like she's 10 inches shorter than the other three women who are about the same, who are all about six foot, basically. Kurt Nelson 1:02:09 Yeah, Speaker 1 1:02:10 and she then retires as an Olympic champ, and just for health, starts working out again, doing triathlons, and now she has this new take on training. Right, focus on your what is the real limiting factor. She wins the national championships in triathlon, goes the Olympics, finishes sixth, goes the next Olympics in triathlon again, retires, unretires again, and learns fencing and horse jumping, and and goes to the Olympics in modern pentathlon. And she is the only woman ever to have gone to competed in three different sports in four Summer Olympics, and she retired right briefly in her senior year. If she hadn't learned about the theory of constraints and applied it to her training, and reading about the theory of constraints, I really started to see a lot of the world in that way of like what really and even for my own work like what really is the limiting step here. I'm doing all these different things, but where is the work piling up? And I think if we can kind of do that and find out what is that bottleneck, or as Goldreich would often call it, the drum because it sets the beat at which the whole system operates, you can really unleash, you know, productivity and focus that's that's sort of already in in the system, but drowning in in doing in focusing on too many different parts. Tim Houlihan 1:03:35 Yeah, I I think it's amazing just to think about her ability to both envision and dream and imagine great big things about her life, and then but achieve it by achieve those things by focusing on her constraints. Speaker 1 1:03:52 This kind of happened to me too, by the way, athletically. Like, I was a walk-on 800 meter runner in college. I didn't know the theory of constraints, but I was like not even close to being able to make the team. I was not good, and there was a young volunteer assistant coach who nobody cared what I was doing. Nobody cared what he was doing. We kind of experimented together, and we didn't use this language bottleneck and all that. But it became very clear that my limiting factor was my ability to recover like I just did not recover from hard workouts at the pace of my peers, and so one of the brilliant strategies, other than dropping my weekly mileage from like 80 to like 35, was to schedule class over one workout a week so that I had an excuse for not showing up, and that worked like rocket fuel. So I started doing two two hard workouts a week, where my peers were doing three, and I started getting better like crazy. I ended up as a university record holder. You know, I ran the U.S. national championships and indoors. So, you know, I went from walk on to to being decorated, and it was very much by doing less work, but recognizing what was really the limiting thing here. For me, it was it was recovery. You know, it just didn't it just didn't work for me the same way that it did for other people. Kurt Nelson 1:05:05 It's it's fascinating because it's so counterintuitive, right? I mean, when you think about you're doing less work, you're doing less of those things that everybody is saying you need to work harder in order to get better. But it's that it's understanding your own bottleneck, and I don't think people. Did you come on that by, by like, were you? How how did you come about that you realized it was the recovery time? Speaker 1 1:05:29 Yeah, it was very much so. It's funny because you know there's that saying I don't know where it's from, but that the definition of insanity is doing the same thing and expecting different results. That's exactly what I would have done. But this this young coach noticed this immediately, like that through the week. You know, maybe I could that my relative because I was still behind these guys who'd been recruited for a while, but that my relative performance would be if there was a Monday, Wednesday, Friday workout. My relative performance would be the best on Monday, worse on Wednesday, and worse on Friday, and then I'd be destroyed if there was a race on Saturday. And there would be things like you know. Then we started measuring my pulse, and I'd be waking up with a pulse still clearly elevated. So obviously, I had not not fully recovered, just incredibly fatigued, all those kinds of things. So, so actually, once we started looking, the signs were pretty obvious. But I just wasn't thinking that way until someone attuned me to it or saw it from the outside. You know, I think that's why that's why everybody can use a coach. Kurt Nelson 1:06:34 Well, that's where I was going with that. Is I think oftentimes it's so hard for us to see our own limitations, those own constraints that we or bottlenecks that we run into, and oftentimes it is that outside coach. You know, if it's a sport thing, or even you know, there's executive coaches and various different pieces now, but oftentimes it's just having that different perspective to come to you and say, here is a way that I'm seeing that we should explore, and and once you kind of dig into that, you kind of go, oh, but you have to have an open mind, like you said, that definition of insanity is doing that same thing over and over. If you just go, no, this is this is how I do it. I'm going to do it that way. Then yeah, expect the different results. Speaker 1 1:07:19 I the because I'm you know, I'm a hard worker, and the I never would have, of my own accord, I never would have accepted the idea that of doing less, like it required somebody else to come say like this is a plan, because otherwise I just would have been like that. It just would not have made sense, Tim Houlihan 1:07:41 or at least experiment with it. At least give it a try, right? Speaker 1 1:07:45 Yeah, yeah, yeah. And it's funny because, given where I was, there wasn't much risk of trying. Like it was, it it would make sense to take some big risks. Because what did I really have to lose? Like I wasn't making the team the way that I was. But it's hard to think that way when you're in the middle of it, yeah, Tim Houlihan 1:08:01 yeah, yeah. David, I would like to take our conversation in the direction of music, and I just want to. I would like kudos for both of you for holding. Why are you laughing? Kurt Nelson 1:08:14 Tim and his music. There you go. Tim Houlihan 1:08:16 All right. If you've been through 550 episodes like we have, you know, for some reason it still makes Kurt. I could Kurt Nelson 1:08:25 have told you, Tim, about 10 minutes ago. There was like an itch in Tim that he just he. If you probably, if you look at his hands, they're probably shaking because he wanted to get these music. In how many of Speaker 1 1:08:37 those 550 episodes, Kurt, would you say music comes up Kurt Nelson 1:08:41 549. The one I did solo, that yeah, that one didn't come up. So there you go. Tim Houlihan 1:08:51 First of all, I just have to make a note that you're telling a story about Robert Johnson, the the great blues guitarist, who is kind of considered by many to be sort of the father of the Delta blues, but you brought up one of our favorite authors and podcast guests, Gloria Mark, in that story. Speaker 1 1:09:14 I'm big fan. Tim Houlihan 1:09:15 Like that was just like that was such a cool connection. I just have to have to just do a little shout out to Gloria as being connected to to to that whole, and it was about learning guitar. So that was that was kind of the thing. Okay, but I want to talk about Bach. Actually, Joanne Sebastian Bach, you weren't Kurt Nelson 1:09:33 going to go down the devil like deal with the devil and and Roderick Johnson with that and the real story behind it, which was, I think, so much cooler. Anyway, all right, go, go. It is. It's a great. Tim Houlihan 1:09:46 There's, but we should have dedicated a whole episode just to the music references that you have in the book, David. Honestly, but but you you you bring up Bach as working within constraints, and it is fascinating. Again. I'm just going to mention to reiterate to listeners who may not remember. I went to the Conservatory of Music in Kansas City, and in studying the the literature of Bach's work, you know, you just see this tremendous rigor of like the the pieces, the fugues, the cantatas, the the symphonies. There's very strict designs on how those pieces are created, and Bach was extremely prolific. You know, 1100 compositions compared to, you know, Mozart. I think Beethoven had like 700 Mozart, maybe 600 compositions in his lifetime. Incredibly prolific, and Bach kind of set the framework for literally, very literally, for the way we listen to music today, there's just nothing in music today that hasn't been already explored by Bach. What was it? What did you learn about constraints from from this research and from this work that you did on on Bach's music specifically? Speaker 1 1:10:58 Yeah, well, let me tell you, I came to Bach, which was I when I started getting interested in constraints, my literary agent said he must have been mentioning it to people, and one of his other writers is a guy named Peter Mendelson, who is probably the most sought after book cover designer in the world. He's the creative director at The Atlantic. He also happened to have taught at Juilliard, and was you know a pianist, and he's a painter. He's just a maker, kind of a polymath. Kurt Nelson 1:11:30 Yep. Speaker 1 1:11:31 And Peter said, "Oh, I got to get my piano tuned and give you a lesson because Bach was driven by constraints. And so Peter invited me over and gave me this incredible music lesson, where he took me through every movement of Bach's Art of the Fugue, which I then started reading about after that. And you know, in Bach's, his sort of authoritative biographer called this kind of the the Art of the Fugue, arguably the the apotheosis of Vox Eye Creative Vision, basically, and I think he identified this and and B minor Mass as the two compositions where he sort of fully expressed himself, and so the Art of the Fugue starts with this simple 12 note melody that's pretty austere, and Bach then uses that little kernel to spin an entire musical universe out of it. So there are 14 movements, each torturing that 12 note theme in increasingly complex ways, and so and to go back a second. By the way, Peter told me that Bach entered into a world that was had extraordinary number of musical constraints that had been codified in what was called species counterpoint, which are basically all these rules about good musical hygiene that had to be followed. And some of them are crazy. Like there's every piece should have a single highest note that is used once and only once. Tim Houlihan 1:13:04 Only once. Speaker 1 1:13:05 And there are all these parallel jumps that you're not allowed to make because we're now used to listening to music like with all these chords and everything. Things, but but there it was different lines of music or melodies were like different voices, and they're supposed to remain distinct. And so you weren't supposed to make certain jumps at the same time, or else some of the melodies would would feel like they had converged. So all just tons of rules, and they were really meant to be followed. And so he came into this world with lots of musical constraints, and then just foisted more and more in his own head. First by picking this this form fugue, where you take a simple theme and weave it throughout a piece, and continue coming back to it. Right, so it's all about like, like you're sort of stuck with this one theme, and you have multiple voices that are are chasing and running away from one another and returning to this theme. And while they're doing all that, you have to follow all of these other species counterpoint rules, and so it's just like this incredible amount of regulations that you're that you're working inside of. Tim Houlihan 1:14:08 Yeah, Speaker 1 1:14:08 and so Bach takes that that 12 note theme, you know, and in one movement he flips it upside down, and in another he has it backwards, and in another, just the rhythm is different. Just doing, taking this simple thing and doing everything you can possibly do with it. And then in the later movements, he starts adding in second or third themes, so that there are multiple little themes that all of the voices have to circle and come back to, and they can't be doing it at the same time. And so it's getting incredibly incredibly complex. And then the very end, he introduces a new theme that's B flat A C B, which in German musical notation is B A C H. So he puts his own name as a musical theme in, which which apparently Peter told me is something that's very very hard to make work with in general. Like his name was not the most convenient. Musical notation, but it's just so it's these 14 movements of just escalating strictures that he's putting on himself, and then Peter would stop every once in a while and tell me that section that I just played, that transition had never been heard before, and the reason it happened is because it's the only way for Bach out of this little place where he had cornered himself. It's the only way he can keep moving and still not violate any of those rules, and so it was by putting himself in these corners and having to find a way out that you know he he he got to places that that nobody else ever had, and so I thought it was just really fascinating because one because I I knew that Bach was important, but until I really started researching him, I didn't realize that he was like far and away considered by other composers to be the most important composer ever. His life story was a lot less dramatic than Mozart, for example. So I think he's not as mythologized the same way. You know, he mostly wrote music for a church, but or Tim Houlihan 1:16:00 Beethoven going deaf in in his later years. I mean, that's that's a dramatic story, Speaker 1 1:16:04 right? Right. So Bach did not did not have as much of a dramatic story, but it was interesting that he this the most important composer ever really gravitated to this the most rule bound of of musical forms and then hemmed himself in in all these ways and it was trying to get out of the the labyrinths that he himself constructed that that led him to things that nobody else had ever Tim Houlihan 1:16:26 done. Yeah, it it is fantastic. Just really briefly, and I don't mean to make this a a cue or a prime, but if you were stuck on a desert island and you had a listening device that only had two artists on it. You get the whole catalog, but only two artists. Which two artists would you take with you? Speaker 1 1:16:48 Well, I know what I know because of my like Apple music thing. What my most listened to music was last year, which was Keith Jarrett's the Cologne concert, which is also in the book. But Kurt Nelson 1:16:58 yeah, Speaker 1 1:17:01 I think I would want something with words and something without words, though, just to have some of that variety. Instead, I get two variety seeking. Yeah, Kurt Nelson 1:17:10 you get Tim Houlihan 1:17:12 a little bit of both. Speaker 1 1:17:13 So, so I think I would probably, I think I would probably go with Bach for non-word music, and he also has a huge catalog, as you mentioned, so that would be helpful. And I think for music with words, I'd probably go with this band called London Grammar. That oh, they're bigger in the UK than they are. Okay, yeah. So Kurt Nelson 1:17:36 I'm gonna have to check out London Grammar now. So very Speaker 1 1:17:39 different than than Bach, which is you know we're novelty seeking, Kurt Nelson 1:17:43 right? You want to have you're stuck there. It's like okay, now's the time to switch it up. So and actually even within Bach though, you you get a variety of different varieties. Yeah. So yeah, yeah. I mean, Speaker 1 1:17:55 arguably, like the and Tyler Cowen has mentioned this before. He thinks Bach is arguably the the greatest creator in history of any type. If you look at quality and volume and innovation, and I think there's you know that that's not like an argument that can be settled, right? But but I think I don't think that's crazy to say. Tim Houlihan 1:18:17 Yeah, totally. We're going to wrap it up and say, David Epstein, thank you so much for taking this time with us and sharing a fantastic book. We love Inside the Box, and we want our readers, our listeners, to read it. Sorry, but thank you for being a guest on Behavioral Grooves. Speaker 1 1:18:35 Thank you. I very much enjoyed this conversation. Yeah, it was really a lot of fun. Kurt Nelson 1:18:43 Welcome to our grooving session, where Tim and I share ideas on what we learned from our discussion with David, have a free-flowing conversation, and groove on whatever else comes into our constrained brains. Tim Houlihan 1:18:54 They are. They just are, aren't they? You know, our brains are just constrained. We have limited resources, we have limited abilities, and all those limitations can be used in our favor. Those can those constraints can absolutely be things that we can exploit. Well, that's terrific. Kurt Nelson 1:19:13 Yeah, and I think there's a there's there is this idea that unlimited options are the best way to go, and I mean we've we've you know talked about that the choice overload and a whole bunch of other things that that perception isn't although it feels right at a gut level, like give me more freedom, more options to choose from. I should have better outcomes from that. But that's not how we work as humans all the time, right? Tim Houlihan 1:19:53 Well, how is it that we work as humans, Kurt? Give us, give us a, give us a little bit. How do we? You want to know how? Kurt Nelson 1:20:00 We work as humans, Tim. Here's how it works. We are no. I think what David talks about, and I think this is a key piece of all of this, is that constraints are not the enemy of creativity or motivation or any of those, but they're often the catalyst that actually allows us to break out of those familiar routines, to have the motivation to go and explore something in a new way, to make something that is truly unique, not because I can bring everything in, but because I only have this set of limited resources with which to build, and I need to do it. And now it makes me look at those in a very different way. And I think that is really-it's the you know unconventional way of thinking about it, and I think it's really, really powerful. Tim Houlihan 1:21:04 Yeah, there's a couple things I want to say about this constraint as not being the enemy. The first thing I want to say is about our sponsor today is behavior shift, and behavior shift in the journals there are prompts, and those prompts are pretty specific, yeah. And you can you can go anywhere you want from this from a starting point of a prompt. But the cool thing about staying within the constraints of the of the prompt is to actually think through what the question that you're posed with is asking you, and to to put some mental rigor into that is really is a really healthy and rewarding thing. And and the second thing that I wanted to say about this is specifically on creativity. I have a good friend in Minneapolis, Sarah Morris, who is a singer songwriter, extremely talented songwriter and singer. And Sarah has been running a club for singer songwriters, so that every week, every week she introduces a new prompt, a one word prompt for songwriters to use to write a song using that prompt somewhere in the song that week. So 52 weeks, 52 prompts. She's been doing this for four years, and she's written a lot of songs. And some of the prompts are crazy: sparkle, pumpkin, poster. You know, they're just like they're not like love sunset. No, they're you know tall glass. But so that again, I love I love that it goes back to you know the the conversation like Dr. Seuss and the 50 word limit that he got imposed. I mean, at first it was what was it the 200? I forget the story exactly, but you know, by putting that constraint on, you have to become Kurt Nelson 1:23:00 more inventive, so I can see like having pumpkin. Like why I? How am I going to write pumpkin into a song, into song lyrics? Like you're going to Tim Houlihan 1:23:13 have to use your creativity. Kurt Nelson 1:23:15 Yeah, so you're you're constrained because you have to use something. So again, constrained. Often we think of constraint as being like, oh, you can't use these things. Sometimes constraint is also that you have to only, or you have to use something in part of it, and that's the other part. I think that David highlights that I think is really good. You know, the the conversation that I didn't really understand when you guys were talking about Bach, but you know what that meant. But it sounded really difficult, you know. Tim Houlihan 1:23:50 Well, Bach was a master of constraints. He was absolutely a master of working within the the medium of the day, and yet at the same time, because he worked so well within the medium, he he stretched the boundaries. Actually, I mean, the weird thing was that there's this opposite effect of what of what happened. I'm not going to go into. I could. I would be. I would love to do a whole grooveing session just on Bach, but we're not going to do that. Not today, at least. Not today. Kurt Nelson 1:24:20 People, you might be in for a treat later on. It would be a soul grooming session because I would just be sitting there going, "Uh huh, uh huh, uh huh. All right, so yeah, I think the the takeaway here is really if you you know if you want more originality? It's not necessarily about removing constraints. It's about choosing those constraints deliberately, and this is the other part that I thought David brought in a great insight: is that we need to find the bottleneck, not just work hard. And that that bottleneck, like he brought up when he was talking about Sheila the the the Olympian, I can't pronounce her last name, right? But you know, it was the the bottleneck for her was Sheila Tim Houlihan 1:25:16 Tarmina. Yeah, there Kurt Nelson 1:25:18 you go. Tim Houlihan 1:25:18 Okay, Kurt Nelson 1:25:19 the wasn't her power; it was aerobic capacity, and so, like, how do you work on that? For him, it was like, hey, I I don't really recover from my you know workouts, and so if you keep asking me to work out more without giving me the recovery time, then I actually decrease my performance. So his constraint was, I actually have to take some of my workouts out and allow my body to recover. And I thought that was just insightful. And I think it's difficult. That was the part. Like, how how do you identify that, and that's that's a big piece. Tim Houlihan 1:26:02 It is okay. So, what are some things that people could do? Could they could? What are some tips? Some tips of the trade here, Kurt. What what what comes to mind as a way of using constraints as a way to improve your output, improve the quality of the output, maybe even the quantity of the output. Kurt Nelson 1:26:24 All right, so you want to like get into real kind of things like that. Examples, Tim Houlihan 1:26:29 yes. Kurt Nelson 1:26:30 So there's there's like so block. I think we talked about this a little bit, right? Like block the obvious rule, right? So, don't go with that first solution. What is it? I think you you bring this up like in brainstorming. What was the famous quote? Like, you know, is is that first idea that gets thrown out gonna be the best one? And nope, never, almost never, right? Tim Houlihan 1:27:00 But you got to throw the first one out in order to keep going. But Kurt Nelson 1:27:03 but our brains tend to latch onto that. We we tend to like if I have that first solution, then I start to own that, and I then limit myself to seeing the opportunity to others. But if I say I have to throw that first one out, but I can't use it, and I have to go to the next one or the next one, then it allows me to open up, and so I'm constraining myself. I'm constraining myself by actually adding more work in. Right. So again, constraints aren't always about limiting things. They're they're there, so you know it's it's it's that. Tim Houlihan 1:27:45 Yeah, one of my favorites was half the time, half the budget, because yeah, what we talked Kurt Nelson 1:27:50 about. Yeah, Tim Houlihan 1:27:50 yeah, but this is something that I used in when we were in product development. We'd say, okay, so to get down to our MVP, our minimum viable product, what if we had half the time and half the budget? Actually, actually play it out. What would that look like if we had to cut features? If we had to cut certain aspects, and and how would we deal with that? And that ends up being a really powerful, you know, constraint that forces us to creatively think about well, what could we reuse then from from previous products? What what might might might be some of the things that that really it showed up in the research, but it were kind of spurious. You know that the clients were talking actually more about this other thing. So maybe we should focus. So simplify, Kurt Nelson 1:28:35 yeah. So so create like all right. So what is as you said, it's the you know the minimum viable you know component, and so what is that? And I love this idea of half the time, half the budget or resources, and all of a sudden you're going, oh crap! I can't, we can't do that, and then you you start to think about it, and you can you can start doing that right absolutely. You know, I there's also like if you were able to just change one behavior, one employee behavior. If you're a leader in an organization and you said, if I could just get my team to every person to do one thing differently, what would that be? You know, it's not changing the world. It's not going out there and we're we're going to be perfect. But all right, what is that one? If I could get everybody to just focus in on one thing and do that again, you're constraining yourself to the entirety population of behavior change, but you can use that for your team. But you can also use it for yourself. Like, what is the one behavior that I need to change about myself in order to achieve that goal? And we talk about some of that in in some of the behavior shift stuff, right? So, Tim Houlihan 1:29:57 where it was a tool that we developed. When I was in banking to work to help advisors, wealth advisors help their clients plan for retirement, and so gave them 24 cards, and on each card was a simple, you know, two or three-word identifier. You know, family, vacation, you know, or travel, you know, loved ones, security, blah blah blah. You know, a whole bunch of these kinds of things, and then they had to organize them in a way that was prioritized. The trouble with with 24, it's a lot. So what the instruction was was, as soon as somebody started focusing on a couple of them. Start pulling others away to reduce, and then say, "Okay, now you have to pick. You have to pick three out of this group. Here's here's five in front of you. Pick three out of this group, and then there's another set of five. Pick three out of this group, and so you're getting rid of two and two and two. And then out of these, then you have another group of three out of out of these, or another group of five out of this five, pick three. Out of this five, pick three, and then you get down to five, and you say, out of this five, pick the last three, and then out of that three, you say, what's the number one thing in this? Kurt Nelson 1:31:10 Yeah, I love that. I love that. It just it it forces people to make choices, Tim Houlihan 1:31:16 and in a simple way, Kurt Nelson 1:31:19 and we don't like like, but I like all five of these things. You know, I want I want security, and I want my loved ones, and I want to have a vacation, and I want to have this. But yeah, you have to prioritize and choose. I love that. Yeah, yeah. Kurt Nelson 1:31:33 You know, there's there's this other piece which is like building something only with the existing parts. So if you think about Legos, right, and and like old day Legos where it wasn't the Lego that you get the like this is Tim Houlihan 1:31:52 9000 pieces. Well, you Kurt Nelson 1:31:54 could have 9000 pieces, but it's not the you know this isn't the Millennium Falcon or this isn't you know the this where but it's just your blocks and so you have 30 blocks and now you need to create this whatever it would be and we actually do some team building things with this where we give teams Tim Houlihan 1:32:20 yeah you Kurt Nelson 1:32:21 know, 30 blocks, and they have to develop, you know, this, you know, bridge or something that will, you know, get from, you know, this block from point A to point B. All sorts of different things in it, but it's limited. You you can't go and like, and they always ask, well, can I use this? No, you have the materials that you have in front of you. This is what you get to use. Well, can't I bring in? No, you can't. And they go, well, we can't do it. And you go, yes, you can. And it's been done. And I think that is always really good. So you can think about this for a new program, a new workshop. You know, anything that you have from that perspective, Tim Houlihan 1:33:03 I think that's probably enough about constraints. Kurt Nelson 1:33:05 Well, the last one I will do is is just oh you're more Tim Houlihan 1:33:08 you can't be done. You can't constrain me on this, Tim. God damn it, you're Kurt Nelson 1:33:15 constrained. No, but one of my all favorites, and this is this is more about like constraints around decisions because we can get there. There are things on on making decisions, and so one of these great rules that I that we use and and people just really like is this concept called two breaths, seven breaths, and what it is is when you're making a decision, and this comes down into there's different types of decisions, but oftentimes those decisions that we make just routinely, real quick, or ones that we agonize over that aren't necessarily like buying a house or something else. But oh my gosh, what what outfit should I wear today? You know, to look here and you agonize over this shirt or that shirt. I Tim Houlihan 1:34:01 do agonize over that every day. Well, here's by the fantastic shirt that I'm wearing right now. Kurt Nelson 1:34:07 Here's here's a tip, right? It's you know, make that decision within two breaths, or make sure you don't make the decision before you've taken two breaths, so it pauses you. So some of those routine decisions that you often make without even thinking about it. You know, two breaths is enough to actually go. Oh, do I really want that extra large? You know, fries with this. You know, I double size. Yeah, you know. Oh, do you want to? Do you want to super size it? Sure. You know, no. Take two breaths and go. Nah, no, I don't. It's it that is usually enough to allow you and your brain to go through that mental gymnastics of saying, yeah, do I want this or do I not? And then for choosing your shirt in the morning, Tim Houlihan 1:34:57 yeah, Kurt Nelson 1:34:57 like you have seven breaths and. And you got to make your decision before the end of that seventh breath. And so now it's like, oh, the blue one, the the white one, the blue one, the white one. You know, oftentimes those are like we we agonize over it when we don't have to. And if we just set that seven breaths, it's like, oh, all right, blue, here we go. Tim Houlihan 1:35:18 So no fewer than two breaths and no more than seven. Kurt Nelson 1:35:22 Yeah. Now and again, that doesn't apply to everything. Like if you're making big financial decisions about buying a house or something, take more than seven breaths to make that decision, right? If you like, who am I going to marry? All right, there you go. And and and if you're you know crossing a walkway and you hear a horn, you know, don't go. I'm going to take two breaths before I decide if I'm going to jump or not jump. Right? No, that's all right. Those are yeah. Tim Houlihan 1:35:48 Okay. Now, can we constrain constrain the constraints? Are we? Are we? Yes, we can now constrain. We can constrain Kurt Nelson 1:35:57 the constraints. That works. Yes. All right. Tim Houlihan 1:36:00 Okay, Grooves, we we hope that you will check out a couple things. Check out our sponsors' work here. Check out Behavior Shift because it's great stuff. There's lots of tools out there. Make sure you get the Shift part in. You get that F in the in the Behavior Shift in in the web address and that sort of thing when you're searching for it, check out our Substack because there's lots of great, really great work that comes out of there. And I'm saying that because I don't write all of them. I don't write hardly any of them actually anymore. Caroline Schaefer, our producer, is a fantastic writer, and she's not AI. She's real. She's human, and she's insightful. And so, encourage her to check that out. 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