Why Do We Struggle to Talk About Money? | Abby Davisson

What do career moves, relationship milestones, and family planning all have in common? According to Abby Davisson, co-author of Money and Love: An Intelligent Roadmap for Life’s Biggest Decisions, they work better when we work on them together. Our most personal choices aren’t shaped by just emotion or just logic—they’re shaped by emotion and logic working in tandem.

In our conversation with Abby, she introduces the 5C framework—a practical decision-making model designed to help you make better choices with confidence and clarity. Drawing on decades of teaching experience and personal reflection, Abby explains why the old wisdom of separating love from money is outdated—and how more open financial conversations can help prevent regret. Whether you’re single, partnered, or somewhere in between, her actionable advice will help you prepare for a better financial future.

We also explore the psychology behind our values, how identity and context shape our decisions, and why it’s crucial to have ongoing conversations about money—especially the uncomfortable ones. A little more clarity can transform the way you live, and this episode will help you rethink the tension between your heart and your wallet.

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